On Bereavements

Life is but a great celebration through the four seasons that culminates in blissful rest and peace as we return to our Creator. The grief we leave behind is only an expression of our love ...

On Taking Your Senses Beyond

Don't just look, see
Don't just hear, listen
Don't just sniff, smell
Don't just taste, savor
Don't just touch, feel
Don't just think, contemplate

Insight - #29

Tomorrow will either be a sunny, cloudy or rainy day whether one is happy or sad. So, might as well choose to be happy ...

Insight - #28

The only thing that is permanent is change. All good and bad spells last the same length of time. Your mind is programmed to feel that bad times are longer and happy times shorter. That's why happiness is always referred to as "fleeting". Here's the trick, savor every moment when you are happy. It will make it "longer" and do the opposite for the bad spells i.e. don't dwell on them ...

Insight - #27

All, but three simple words. Many people can look directly into the eyes of the other party and say "I love you" or "I hate you", but few can say "I am sorry" ...

On True Friends

I have a late friend who goes back to his hometown (Penang) every year to celebrate his father's birthday. His father always gave him a Chinese traditional "red packet" and an assignment for the year following. Once, my friend was asked to identify 3 persons whom he must be able to regard as real and genuine friends and introduce them to the father on the next occasion. So, he returned to KL and found the three whom he was closest to. However, by the time of his father's next birthday, sadly, he couldn't sincerely introduce any of them as stipulated. So, even if you have 1 true friend, consider yourself blessed. This is a true story.

Insights - #26

In a heated argument, avoid using this phrase:
“Before you fault anybody, look at yourself first”
It may just apply to you …